You try your best to make your relationship as happy as possible, but there are some inevitable times when you have to abide by certain methods to spice up your partner. Moreso, nothing bothers us more than an unhappy girlfriend! We can surely empathize with you in such situations, here are ways that you can use at your discretion to make her incredibly happy.

Words have a magical power in them, so use them for your best. Your actions, your feelings, your efforts and your love is what will win her heart. She loves you as much as you love him or maybe even more. There is no doubt that we all love to be treated ‘special’, so why not treat your ladies, too? Seeming to be an ultra-complicated task, infact, it is pretty simple to keep your girlfriend as elated always. You just have to make her feel cared for and also try to think from her perspective.

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Spend some quality time enjoying with her.

Spend some quality time enjoying with her.

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Plan for some days where it is just the two of you together, getting into a deeper bond.

Indulge in her craziness with all your heart.

Indulge in her craziness with all your heart.

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When you love someone, you accept both the good and the quirks of the person. So revel in each other’s company and grow together.

Surprise her with ‘Pack your bags!’ (Or, all expenses paid!)

Surprise her with 'Pack your bags!' (Or, all expenses paid!)

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This is a part of accomplishing an important relationship goal, wherein you take an impromptu travel and trip together. Your undivided attention is a big turn-on for her.

Make her feel wanted.

Make her feel wanted.
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Look straight into her eyes, reassure her that you love her and that you value her.

Be affectionate to her in public.

Be affectionate to her in public.

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Do not shy away from holding hands or brushing her way to the safe side of the road. Girls fall head over heels for ‘just the right amount’ of chivalry.

No need to shy away from acting silly, if it draws a smile on her face.

No need to shy away from acting silly, if it draws a smile on her face.

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She will surely value your efforts to keep her happy, even if it involves you fooling yourself in front of her. She will adore you for this.

Make her feel secure.

Make her feel secure.

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However independent she maybe, but she will surely love it if she knows that she always has your back. That is a reassurance that you will stick with her through the thick and the thin.

Be proud to have her by your side.

Be proud to have her by your side.

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Let her know how lucky you are to have her. Remind her that you have never taken her for granted and never will.

Cuddle her, snuggle with her.

Cuddle her, snuggle with her.

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Let her feel the warmth of the two of you together. That intimacy establishes a bond that will make her happy. A tight hug, a passionate kiss, count high for a girl.

Ask her for help.

Ask her for help.

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This counts for her happiness as she feels you are not hiding anything from her and are fine even in showing the vulnerable, weaker side of yours. This makes her feel wanted.

Compromise for her.

Compromise for her.

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For example, if she wants to go camping in the weekend, and you want a lazy Sunday, give in to her desires, now and then. When she sees you giving you up on your wants just to please her, this will make her happy, instantly.

Send her cute texts like…

Send her cute texts like...

‘Good morning, beautiful.’

‘I got us.’

‘Just kiss me!’

Some surprising texts from boyfriend inculcate trust in the woman that she is remembered by her man even in the busier times. So, you’ve got her, dude.

Get along with her friends and family.

Get along with her friends and family.

For a girl, her close friends and family mean the world to her and nothing better than you being well connected with her near ones. That’s just amazing if you are a big hit with her loved ones.

Make her friends envy her, for she has you.

Make her friends envy her, for she has you.

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Pay attention to her needs, even when she is around her friends. When her friends compliment her for her choice of you, she swells with pride and confidence.

Surprise her with memorable gifts.

Surprise her with memorable gifts.

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She will be elated even if it is a small gesture of a heartfelt love letter or tickets to a movie. For her, little things light up her world.

Give her your undivided attention.

Give her your undivided attention.

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When you are with her, make her feel that she is the center of your world. Do not get distracted if you want her for life.

Respect her opinions.

Respect her opinions.

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Listen to her when she wants to talk to you. Don’t let her feel miserable and please do not ignore er opinions because ‘she is a girl’. There is no big a turn off for her than a sexist person.

Make her laugh, it is both your responsibility and opportunity.

Make her laugh, it is both your responsibility and opportunity.

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She has chosen you above all others and she thinks you are worth the fight, so, it is your duty to make her laugh. Some humor is a great add-on to every relation, also it lights up the mood.

Compliment her.

Compliment her. 

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Simple thumb rule of a happy relation, ‘If you like it, say it’. Women love compliments, communicate with her what you like in her, whether it is her little habits or the way she dresses or the way she smiles. the way to her heart is with compliments.

Call her and talk sweetly to her, that too, by surprise.

Call her and talk sweetly to her, that too, by surprise.

Give her a call when she least expects it and tell hr how much you are missing her in your arms. This paves way for a happier romance.

Keep romance alive with those fancy dates and celebrations.

Keep romance alive with those fancy dates and celebrations.

Sweet romantic gestures like dropping by her with a bouquet of flowers, getting a takeaway of her favourite food, surprise shopping visits and so on.

Phew! She will be yours, you just have to know the tricks!

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